Improve Your Personality
Everyone wants to be attractive
to others. To that end, having a good
personality is vital - probably even more so than good looks. In fact,
approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how
well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that
determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
Be a better listener.
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was
considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated
the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would
look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel
important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you
intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
Read more and expand your interests.
The more you read and cultivate
new interests, the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people
it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views
with them.
Be a good conversationalist.good connverstionalist
This relates to how much you
read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it
with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to
learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves.
If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to
talk about what you know.
Have an Opinion.
There is nothing more tiresome
than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation
has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an
uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and
stimulating to be with socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
Meet New People.
Make the effort to meet new
people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different
cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
Be yourself.
The next most tiresome thing
after having no opinions is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself
in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is
unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to
be a carbon copy of someone else not only falls flat, but reveals a lack of
authenticity.
Have a positive
outlook and attitude.
Who wants to be around people,
who are negative, complaining a lot, or have nothing good to say? In fact, most
of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who
lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the
best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others
with your presence.
Be fun and see the humorous side of life.humor
Everyone enjoys the company of
someone who makes them laugh, or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side
in a situation - there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome and needed
diversion at times. When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise
dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you, not to
mention grateful.
Be supportive of others.
Being supportive is probably
the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you
yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a
cheerleader in our corner; someone who is encouraging believes in us and helps
pick us up when we're down.
Have Integrity and treat people with respect.
Being honest and true to your
word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing
improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect - respect for
others, as well as respect for yourself.
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